Let me apologize in advance: this is not a carefully crafted post. I am deeply disturbed by something I saw (over my son’s shoulder) on youtube this morning. The boys were watching a series of clips of people who were the victims of pranks. Mostly, these were the usual sorts of thing–someone opens a cupboard door only to find another person inside, who yells ‘Boo’, or something like that.
But there was one set that showed people playing a computer game, where the object was to solve a maze. At the end, a hideous and frightening face appeared on the screen and made horror-film terrifying sounds. If my kids tricked me with something like that, it might be funny. Not in the case of the last clip we saw. In that clip, a young man was playing the game. As he looked up over his left shoulder inquiringly, I saw that he had an intellectual disability. He hesitated, then continued, reassured by the person holding the camera. I thought: this is not going to end well.
It did not end well. On seeing the horrible face and hearing the associated sounds, the man shrieked, put his fist through the screen, and leapt back howling. As he stood facing the person holding the camera, the camera panned downwards to show that he had wet himself, then back up to his shocked and sad face. Crying, he said, ‘it’s not funny!’
Most certainly not. Not remotely funny. Now, you might say that this is just one of those things. Maybe the jokester didn’t think (I hope not) that it would be such an awful shock for the man. But if that were so, he or she would have put the camera down at once and apologised, and offered some comfort. To keep filming, to make a spectacle of the man so upset by the experience, and then to post it to youtube as if it is just another clip, like the others in the set… well. I don’t even have words for that.
It has haunted me all day long, and will continue to haunt me for a good while, I think. The person behind that camera has a lot to learn from the man in front of it. We are all vulnerable, and to use someone’s vulnerability against him or her is a violation of our basic humanity. My thoughts about this are still in a jumble–but I think there is something to be said here, or somewhere, about how we are in the image of God, all of us, and to disregard that feature of another’s humanity obscures it in us.
Please pray.
a theologian in the family 
We can only pray that purveyors of unkindness someday come to appreciate the great kindness of God and His obedient children, even as one appreciates the grandeur of a peak from the depth of a ravine. God bless!
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Yes, such things are only funny with good judgment and a shared appreciation of what constitutes a good prank. One might hope that the perpetrator learned (or in the future comes to understand) that he crossed the line, and grow in compassion. I was a school kid in a different era, but one of the rules we had – in an alternative school with a class that ranged from ages 8-16 – was you could play pranks and wrestle and even get into some roughhousing and the kind of fights boys sometimes have, but NEVER with anyone smaller or weaker than yourself. Your job with anyone smaller or weaker was to help them out. Older kids helped younger ones with lessons, homework, cleanup, etc. I only recall that rule being broken once in two years.
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